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Ep245 – Emotional Abuse with Paul Colaianni

  • May 27, 2024
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Gaslighting, Marriage, No Judgement, Recovery, Trauma

Everyone knows what physical abuse is, and it is clearly not acceptable in modern relationships. What makes emotional abuse so sinister is that it is often justified by perpetrators in disbelief and hard to identify…

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Ep241 – Unrespected Advice

  • April 29, 2024
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Communication, Family, Gaslighting, Marriage, Recovery, Resentment, Trauma, Trust

After the chaos and trauma of active alcoholism, loved ones naturally lose respect for their drinkers. Advice from the recovering alcoholic is often not welcome, and can do serious damage to the relationship. On this…

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Ep236 – Deceit Betrayal

  • March 25, 2024
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Authentic, Communication, Divorce, Forgiveness, Marriage, Military, Recovery, Safety, Sobriety, Trauma

The lying is worse than the drinking. Sheri and Matt have heard this sentiment expressed countless times by partners who are suffering from the trauma of betrayal. Honesty is so important even when honesty is…

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  • Addiction
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Ep234 – Military Culture

  • March 11, 2024
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Community, Family, Marriage, Mental Health, Military, Recovery, Sobriety, Trauma

Do you think your industry or environment has a heavy drinking culture? You are probably right, but you are not unique. In this episode, Sheri and Matt talk (from their civilian perspective) about the things…

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Ep230 – Expectations

  • February 12, 2024
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Communication, Expectations, Family, Gaslighting, Marriage, Recovery, Resentment, Sobriety, Trauma

What are your expectations for recovery, for you or the people around you? Some expectations are absolute necessities. Others are unachievable, and even harmful. Sheri and Matt talk through a bunch of scenarios and explain…

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  • Addiction
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Ep229 – Roundtable: Navigating Custody of the Kids

  • February 5, 2024
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Death, Divorce, Family, Health, Marriage, Mental Health, Separation, Teens, Trauma

***Trigger Warning: Death from alcohol abuse is discussed. Julie, Rachel, Becky and Melanie join the conversation and help Sheri and Matt break down the issues surrounding custody agreements and co-parenting arrangements. From the impact these…

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  • Addiction
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Ep225 – D!@k Olympics: Size Isn’t Everything, but You Are a Big One

  • January 8, 2024
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Brain Chemistry, Divorce, Identity, Marriage, Recovery, Trauma

Early sobriety from high-functioning alcoholism is plagued with dopamine depletion and identity crisis resulting in mood swings, tension, sadness, thin skin and meanness. As a three-time gold medalist in the 2017 D!@k Olympics, Matt leads…

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  • Addiction
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Ep216 – Lowered Standards and Disappointing Outcomes

  • November 6, 2023
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Death, Divorce, Expectations, Family, Gaslighting, Marriage, Mental Health, Recovery, Separation, Suicide, Trauma

***Trigger Warning – Talk of Self Harm and Suicide It is common knowledge that alcoholism is a progressive disease in relation to the volume and frequency of consumption. What is rarely considered is that the…

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  • Recovery
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Ep213 – Detachment and Separation

  • October 16, 2023
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Divorce, Family, Gaslighting, Marriage, Pain, Recovery, Separation, Sobriety, Trauma

Sheri and Matt deal with Matt’s hypocrisy about supporting detachment in alcoholic relationships. up to and including physical separation, when the couple never got separated themselves during his active addiction or recovery. Join our introductory…

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Ep208 – The Developing Story Writing Workshop for Teens

  • September 11, 2023
  • Tagged as: Addiction, Alcohol Abuse, Community, Family, Recovery, Teens, The Developing Story, Trauma, Your Story

Sheri and Matt welcome the most special of guests, their daughter, Cathryn, for a return visit to the podcast. This time, instead of working through the heart wrenching experiences of Cathryn’s childhood, like they did…

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